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Women In Kamasutra

Kamasutra, the much celebrated Indian text on lovemaking has interesting references on the art of love making. Vatsyana's renowned text must have widely referred as a text for pleasure reading on the art of physical pleasure. However as one reads on, it is surprising to note the intrinsic philosophy and the reflection of its contemporary society that lies beneath the wonderful theme it deals with. The aspirants of Kamasutra may be eager to know about the women with whom a man can do the best sexual thrill.

Kamasutra has strict instructions on women partners to be taken for sexual relationship in a marital life. However the rules become flexible as the practice of 'Kama' comes only for pleasure. Kamasutra identifies the women with whom men can make love only for physical pleasure.

Kamasutra insists that men should not have sexual contact with a woman belonging to higher caste in a marital life. However the text also allows men to enjoy sexual life with these women if, it is only for pleasure. In that case there must be a hearty consent from the woman's side or she should have priorly enjoyed sexual pleasure with another person.

Kamasutra instructs that men can make love with women if they have specific advantages from the relationship. For instance the sexual relationship

Kamasutra instructs that men can make love with women if they have specific advantages from the relationship.



with the dominating wife of his enemy will get him protection from his enemy's wrath. In another way he can also ensure a good ally with a powerful force with this sexual union. There is no harm in accordance with Kamasutra if, the man enjoys sexual pleasure with a woman aiming at her vast wealth or riches.

Kamasutra advises men to have sexual union with women if, the fair sex threatens to tarnish his image or living conditions. Men can also sexually acquire women to do a beneficial cause to the society. There is no harm if, a man seduces a wife whose husband had seduced his own wife. Kamasutra finds no fault in a man who seduces a woman aiming at the love her girlfriend.

There are some women with whom Kamasutra strictly prohibits the sexual relationship. A woman who is infected with contagious diseases, unhygienic or mentally challenged should not be prompted for sexual relationship. Kamasutra states that it is better not to have sexual union with women who reveal all the secrets or who publicly crave for sexual affection. Women who are related with men or true friends should not be considered for the sexual act. Whatever be the situation these women should not come to your mind for sexual pleasure in accordance with Kamasutra.

The aspirants of Kamasutra must be noted that these instructions had been written with the influence of the laws and philosophy of the text's contemporary society. There are vast changes in the present world and before you venture to take any of the women, be careful to have a concept of the society around you.

Mistakes Men Makes In Bed

Small mistakes like a sigh or just a comment can make her rising pulses to a numb feeling. Although you may try tracing every nook and corner, you will not find a tiny hint. Read to know what are the common mistakes men commit on the bed. Try to avoid them or witness her falling libido

The scratchy love play : Most men think that their scratchy beard or moustache arouses her orgasm. Take a break guys, and think for a while will you like the idea of brushing hard on your erogenous zones? Remember the next time, when you drag your chin across her face or thighs, she might not be moaning from pleasure alone, but from pain also.

Twiddling her nipples alone : Nipples are rated as the most sensitive part of her body. Treat them gently, with mild touch and kissing techniques that are softer than the flowers touch. Do not twist and turn with a cause. Most men do not have an idea of other erogenous zones, so they keep twiddling with the main three assets of her body.


Explore her body and pay attention even to the tiny facts that can make her toes curl with pleasure.

Do not stop for a break : Women cannot pick up where they left off. In this respect they are different from men. If you stop, she will go back to square one very quickly.


The most turn off act what women experience is, the moment men fall asleep after enjoying their bit of feast.

Nasty comments : dirty talking may make you sound like desperate sex caller. Make comments on her sexual desire or play only if she talks about it.

Don't thank her : Taoist sexual practice advises couples to thank for the wonderful experience after the intercourse. However make sure you do it only if she understands the basic meaning behind it. Otherwise it is a sure no-no as it makes you sound desperate and like a charity case.

She doesn't sport the rough and tough act : Men are tabooed as rough. But no woman will like her breasts twisted off or her vagina prodded with claw-like fingers on her every sexual encounter. Remember to go softly as you are dealing with soft and pliable tissue. Well! If she wants more pressure at the tantalizing act she will guide you to her pleasure zone.

Avoid the daily sexual schedule : men tend to follow the same schedule at the tick of the time 'start'. However woman love to try and experience different stuffs. Remind yourself of all the other nerve endings in splendid array around her body. Even slender girls have plenty of skin and all of it has really useful nerve endings.

Make her the prime love queen : While making love try focusing on her unique features than the common features of woman. Calling her by her name is a very good idea.

Taking your pants off first.: men hate to waste time. They just begin with the nude act. Remember there are lot of stuffs that you can do with your clothes on. Women think, there are few things less attractive than a man in only socks, a shirt and underpants.

The climax ends before it starts: For some men premature ejaculation becomes a dreaded habit that warrants therapy. However one can overcome by taking specific pills or by trying specific masturbating techniques. The most turn off act what women experience is, the moment men fall asleep after enjoying their bit of feast. A research shows that a man can typically fall asleep right after sex within 3 seconds. Avoid doing it, if not pinch yourself hard to wake those sulking eyes. Women want to be cuddled and loved after sex. Tell her how much you loved making love with her, and kiss her for a while.

Master The arts of Self Pleasure

In the late 1800s masturbation was considered a sin. In 1960s It was considered a mental condition or immature or undesirable behavior, leading to lack of adult responses. But today the sexual climate has changed completely. Masturbation is an activity to explore more happiness and add sensuality to your whole sexual dimension. Masturbation provides the fastest and easiest sexual relief and satisfaction, in short this is the safest form of sex.

Masturbation is practiced to reach orgasm by self stimulating sexual organs. But some people find this not working with them. They complain that even though they were enjoying masturbation earlier it is not the same now. Few people fail to reach an orgasm through masturbation for some unknown reasons.

There can be a number of reasons why masturbation doesn't bring an orgasm for many people. Depression, emotional instability, or the baseless worries and beliefs regarding masturbation may be obstacles to enjoy masturbation. Most of the people believe that masturbation may cause severe health problems. Masturbation is considered as a moral sin by many religions. When over powered with these feelings and worries masturbation may not bring an orgasm to people.


For some persons it's even possible for the body to have an orgasm, but because the brain does not perceive it, they don't know it.



While it is common to think of the genitals as the most important sex organ, it is actually the brain that counts the most. For some persons it's even possible for the body to have an orgasm, but because the brain does not perceive it, they don't know it. When one is struck with lot of anxieties, fears and tensions even if the body feels an orgasm the brain doesn't perceive and enjoy it.

To enjoy masturbation to the fullest certain preparations are to be taken, like preparing yourself with a bath, being in a calm and relaxed state, selecting a comfortable posture etc... may help you to have a joyful masturbation to reach an orgasm. Each time you start caressing your body, try to keep going for longer and to increase your delight in what you're finding out about yourself.

There are lot of advisable ways to do effective masturbation. Every one masturbates when he/she is aroused with sexual feelings. but when you begin to feel depressed, and the emotions overwhelm your arousal so you can't have an orgasm. The best and most appreciable way to reach an orgasm is having a fantasy when you masturbate. Most people fantasize during masturbation. studies have indicated that these scenarios and images many times involve situations or people that the subject would actually encountered in real life. Let your fantasy be the one gives you the deep most sexual desire and that makes you crazy. Never have a fantasy that may bring back you to a depressed stage thus loosing your interest in the act.

Don't forget that the most powerful part of a person's arousal equipment is his/her mind. So it can be helpful to introduce some mental stimulation into the exercise. Try thinking of things that turn you on. Or, while you're stimulating yourself, read from one of those erotic novels. You might even like to try caressing yourself while viewing a sexy video. There are many different ways for a girl to have an orgasm. Most girls reach orgasm from clitoral stimulation. But some girls can have orgasms from vaginal penetration alone or even through nipple stimulation or fantasizing.

Phone sex is another way to do effective and successful masturbation. You can experiment various methods over a phone. Even though most people use their hands to masturbate, instruments like vibrators and dildoes may also be used. These imitate the movements of the hand and provide sexual pleasure. Vast numbers of women nowadays enjoy using a vibrator some or all of the time. There are some truly amazing products around these days for both men and women, and the fair sex is becoming much less timid about trying them. There is no right or wrong way of pursuing solo pleasure - and everyone should experiment to find what she/he likes best. When you feel that masturbation no more help you to reach an orgasm, a sexual equipment may be helpful for you.

Facts About G Spot and Clitoris

e best gift god has ever given to mankind, undoubtedly, is sexuality. It is sexuality that structured the society to the present form. To enjoy this wonderful gift to the fullest, knowledge about body structure and pleasure spots are necessary. Female sexual pleasure mostly associates with her clitoris and G spot. Knowledge of the female sexual organs is essential to arouse sexual passion in her and to lead her to the unexplored peaks of sexual pleasure.

What is G- spot and Clitoris?
The Grafenberg spot or G-spot is a small spot in the genital area of women behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. G-spot is a bundle of nerves within the vaginal canal that often produces pleasurable sensations when stimulated. It is usually located about half way between the back of the pubic bone and the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra and near the neck of the bladder, where it connects with the urethra. G spot is a spongy ridged area inside the vagina. Stimulating the g spot can pro duce sexual pleasure to the extreme level.

The clitoris is a small bud like formation situated at the top of the inner vaginal lips. Normally it is hidden under a small hood of skin, but expands when sexually aroused. Most women can attain orgasm by means of gentle massage of the clitoral area. Biologically, it is directly equivalent to the male penis. The clitoris has

Research has shown that women can have orgasm both ways, as more powerful blended orgasm, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.



a central role in elevating feelings of sexual tension.

Clitoral And Vaginal Orgasms
There are two types of orgasms that can happen for women. One is clitoral and the other is Vaginal. It is classified not according to where you feel the orgasm, but where you are being stimulated to achieve orgasm.

Clitoral orgasm is possible by stimulating the clitoris by the women herself. It can be done in a number of ways like rubbing, sucking, body pressure etc... Some women touch the clitoris to become aroused as this is a very sensitive sexual organ. It is a fact that focusing directly on the clitoris for a long time may cause the pleasurable sensations to disappear. The most common way of stimulating clitoris is sexual intercourse. You or your partner can also stimulate your clitoris with fingers during intercourse to help you to achieve orgasm.

For some women, the outer third of their vagina is also very sensitive. When stimulated during intercourse or other vaginal penetration, these women can have orgasm. This is referred as a vaginal orgasm. Vaginal orgasm happens at most of the times, when the g spot is stimulated. Many women have orgasms and about 10 percent can ejaculate when their G-Spots are stimulated.

In fact orgasms are a very individualistic thing. There is no correct pattern of sexual response. Whatever makes you feel more alive and connected with your partner are what count.

Research has shown that women can have orgasm both ways as more powerful blended orgasm, resulting from contractions in both areas at once.

Locating the G spot
G- spot location is different for each woman. There are two primary methods to locate the g-spot. The first method is more personal as locating the G-spot based on the levels of arousal during stimulation. The second method is purely based on the claim that stimulation of the G-spot leads to female ejaculation. Stimulation of a particular spot which leads to an ejaculation is considered as the G-spot for each women.

The first method is a self reported method as it is each woman's responsibility to find out their G spot, but the second method is an attempt to locate the spot under laboratory conditions. Researchers attempted to find the G-spot by “palpating the entire vagina in a clockwise fashion.” Using this technique the researchers reported discovering that women had highly sensitive areas on the anterior vaginal wall.

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